Poor Pudge.
She turned 5 yesterday and got the LeapsterGS that she wanted. Unfortunately in her quest to keep it squeaky clean, she learned that water and soap are not good for things that take batteries. So now we have a dead LeapsterGS.
It would be easy to buy her a replacement one. Easier on the heart too. But I think learning at 5 that items don't magically get replaced is a better lesson to learn. Especially since she can use a lesson in taking care of her stuff. But my heart still hurts for her and I wish I can fix it.
And that dead Leapster on the counter just brings up emotions like regret and sadness. Regret that no one checked on her when she was in the bathroom washing her Leapster. Sadness that we haven't been able to revive it. I stuck it in rice yesterday. DRL cracked it open and got more water out of it. It revived a little bit. We got audio, but nothing on the display. But then it died again.
It was a sad day at the circus yesterday.
Juggling marriage, three kids, and a job. It's a crazy, busy life. There is always something going on here.
Monday, February 16, 2015
Struggling not to rescue
Friday, February 13, 2015
2 month reflection
So, what has happened in 2 months?
Compassion has had more than 10,500 children sponsored from the website.
We had not only continued our sponsorship, but have become correspondence sponsors to 9 more children. Similar to adding biological children to our family, the heart continues to expand with each new addition. And then I try and think of what things would be like without that child, and I can't imagine not having them in our "family."
I have been moved to tears hearing how some of these kids have never received a letter or how it's been 4 years since they've had one. 4 years of mail arriving at the project, but never a letter for them. How incredibly disappointing. So now, it is my privilege to shower love and encouragement on them. Remind them that they are a loved child of God.
We received our first letter!
What will the next 2 months bring?
Hopefully more letters. :)
Perhaps new correspondence kids.
Hopefully not any lost children.
Hopefully a sponsor for Victoire.
Here's to another 2 months of wonderful Compassion kids.
Wednesday, February 11, 2015
10th Anniversary Trip - Day 1 Recap
Anyway,we took the kids to Disney. World. Yeah, that would be a cross-country trip with a 7, 4, and 2-year-old. Our own traveling circus. And because we're traveling across the country we have to be up at the crack of dawn, or before dawn cracks, to get to FL at a decent time. This trip I was actually on the ball and had the kid bags packed on Sunday for a Tuesday flight. Monday night was full of my own packing and packing food for everyone on the plane. With a 50 minute layover, there wasn't really a lot of time to grab food between flights. Remember, traveling circus.
Tuesday morning I was up at 3 am to get the last minute packing done. M woke up shortly after I got up. Then it was time to wake up Pudge and Bubba. All my kids can be early risers, so they were fine with the early morning wake up. We got everything loaded up and got the kids packed up. By 4:30 we were out the door. I was shooting for a 4am departure, so only 30 minutes behind schedule is pretty good for us.
The seats I had requested on the first flight got shifted. Instead of having all 5 in one row (3 together and 2 together across the aisle), we had 3 in one row and 2 directly behind them. I really really really wanted to put DRL with M and Bubba since those two are the ones that get along the best and Pudge is insanely attached to me. However, the potential stress level of DRL made me arrange the seating so he had M while I had the younger two. I am such a good wife.
For those wondering how to manage the bags from the car to the baggage counter, we put Bubba in the stroller, which I pushed. I took one of the large suitcases. Pudge and M wheeled their own. M wore her carry-on backpack. Pudge complained that her carry-on backpack was too heavy to wear, so it was carted for her. Bubba's diaper bag hitched a ride on the stroller. DRL managed the other two bags plus his own carry-on.
We get the bags checked in, which is no easy feat getting through the line with kids that are a little haywire from the early morning while the adults are loaded down like pack mules. Plus the kids have an uncanny ability to station themselves in the path of strangers, so we are forever telling them to get out of the way and come back to us. They seem to mysteriously go deaf at these times.
Okay, step 1: Baggage drop off is done. Now onto Step 2: Security. Ugh. This is one of the worst times to be outnumbered by children. Especially such young children. A small saving grace is they can leave their shoes on. However, while I am sure this is a shocker, we don't fly that much. So the kids have no idea about anything. Oh and being a traveling circus, we need about 50,000 tubs for all of our crap. So, we've got about 8 tubs on the belt, 3 kids wandering around, one adult trying to collaspe the stroller, while the other one is trying to herd
Now, our airport is pretty rinky-dinky, so it's not some great trek to our gate, but there are quite a few people there for our flight and another one. I get some drinks for the family and let the kids chill while we wait to board. Pudge pitches a fit that Bubba drinks too much juice.
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| Waiting to board the first plane |
Our first leg is around an hour and a half. Not too bad. Bubba does okay for it. He eats snacks, plays on the MobiGo, doodles on the MagnaDoodle thing. However, once we start decending he is not a happy camper. He does not want to sit in the seat or my lap. Finally though, we land. Leg 1 Done.
We made good time and got in a little early, so we stop at McD's to pick up some breakfast, mainly for DRL. See the smoothies in the below pictures? I will come to regret getting those.
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| Waiting for the next plane |
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| Pudge is upset about something |
| See the mac and cheese? |
| MobiGo was our friend |
| It's been a long day |
Tuesday, February 10, 2015
Kid mail
It was Alberlin's introduction letter. I am pretty sure she wrote it when she was registered because a) it arrived fairly quickly (just over a month) and b) was addressed to the generic "dear sponsor." But that is okay! It's just how some projects work. It's a trade-off, either a personalized letter which takes longer or an informative general letter which arrives quickly. My kids, especially M, were excited about the letter.
Alberlin introduced the members of her family and listed some of her favorite foods. She asks for prayers of strength because they miss her dad who passed away.
Alberlin also included a drawing with her letter.
M was excited to write back to Alberlin. She still wants to know if Alberlin has received the birthday care package that we sent.
We are also working on a craft for our kids. M made one of Stivenson's letter that I mailed yesterday. Pudge worked on one for Mawupemo. Each kid gets a piece of paper with them atthe bottom with balloons above them listing descriptions of them. Stivenson's said "you are..." and we had balloons for things like smart, handsome, loved, special. I had visions of a "nice" looking craft to send, but I couldn't say no to M and Pudge helping, so while they may not look as orderly as I originally visioned, I hope the kids appreciate the effort that M and Pudge put in.
Sunday, January 25, 2015
Advocating for Victoire
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| Victoire |
Thankful for medical care here
Last weekend, I noticed that Pudge had gotten a bug bite on her leg. No big deal, probably just something that happened while we were in Florida or something. I kept an eye on it and noticed it was starting to get worse. Finally a few days later it started to show signs of infection. Then I was presented with some options, I could take her to her doctor but would have to wait one more day or I could take her to urgent care. I opted for urgent care so we could get the antibiotic started and not wait one more day. With my background in microbiology, I don't want to mess with sepsis. 30 minutes at urgent care and we had a prescription for antibiotics to pick up later.
Let's think about what would happen in a third world country. First off, going to the doctor is not an easy thing. You might have a "local" medical place, but that is probably still a time-consuming trek. Then once you get there, there isn't exactly a receptionist, so you wait and hopefully by the time you are seen they have the supplies required. Even with our flawed health care system we are truly blessed.
For us, this was a very minor medical condition. Pudge's bug bite has been improving with the antibiotics. We were given signs to watch for in case it didn't respond and developed into sepsis. But even in that scenario we would still have the ability to go to an ER a few miles away for treatment in a hospital that is adequately staffed and supplied.
Here's another story about the blessings of our health care and the difference we can make for those living in other counties.
Sunday, January 4, 2015
Kids and Laundry
My kids are starting to figure out that I don't check pockets when things go through the wash. Daddy Ringleader (DRL) also knows this. Usually it goes fine. Sometimes though I end up with a washer full of things like pea gravel or screws.
Well, now I will need to let the kids know that I also do not do a thorough inspection of the dirty clothes hamper. This just went through with M's laundry. Oops. I don't think Katniss had these problems.
Post Office + Toddler = Trouble
Here's a little story from a couple of weeks ago.
It was the Friday before Christmas and I needed to run to our little post office to get stamps for DRL's business. Not just regular stamps, postcard stamps. And I needed to buy 200. DRL was home and the girls had had an early release from school, so I picked Bubba up from daycare and headed to the post office.
As soon as we walked in the door Bubba started having a fit. Now being the Friday before Christmas, there's a line about 8 people deep, so this wouldn't be a quick in and out trip. But, I only had the one kid and I wasn't in a hurry, so really it wasn't anything to stress over. I pick Bubba up and try to console him. I point out the cute little girl in the red coat behind us. "No." I point to the reindeer display on the wall. "No." Just cry, cry, cry, and say no about any attempt at distraction.
One of the postal workers finishes up with the customer she is helping and asks the queue if anyone minds letting the crying baby go first. No one does. So up we go and I plop Bubba onto the counter. He immediately stops crying. He is all happy throughout the transaction and out the door and back into the car. Such a little stinker, but rather handy. He has already been requested by some friends for next year at Christmas time.
Saturday, January 3, 2015
Meet Our Family Booklet
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| Shaeila |
For Mawupemo, I cut each sheet in half and then everyone in the book got their own page. I taped our pictures in. Compassion actually advises against tape because some of the climates that the kids live in makes the tape not so happy and it isn't sticky anymore. This time, I was lazy and used PowerPoint to lay everything out and then just printed it directly to the card stock. This also shortened the book from 6 pages (I didn't have a page with information about our city) - which was difficult to get stapled together, to 4 pages.
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| Front cover |
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| First page Our birthday, favorite color, brief description of our jobs, and our favorite Bible verse |
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| Second page Birthdays, favorite colors, what they want to be when they grow up, and favorite Bible story |
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| Final page Birthday, favorite color, a few sentences about him and what he likes to do The city information may change for the next revision. I may add a landscape picture |
| Happy faces for where we live and where Shaeila lives which are connected with pink hearts. Areas where our other kids live (sponsored and correspondence) are shown with a blue squiggle. |
| Green exclamation mark to show where we live. Happy faces to show were my grandparents live, plus where DRL grew up, and where DRL and I were born. |
Thursday, January 1, 2015
A Reminder
Sometimes one little thing can stop you.
It doesn't happen often enough to me.
Last night was another round of bed times. Daddy Ringleader (DRL) was in charge of stories. I was probably messing around on the computer when I knew it was coming.
Another round of good night routines with Pudge. Every night after story time she has to get out of bed to go brush her teeth. It cannot be done before story time. I have already tried that. Once teeth are brushed it's back to her room where she needs a cup of cold water within arms reach. Lights off, dream light on. Cuddles, tuck in, and the first verse of Away in a Manger. Every night. Some nights I fall asleep while DRL is reading to them. Last night I didn't quite make it to bed.
Instead, little feet came paddling out. I picked her up and made it halfway to her room when it hit me. That sweet, innocent, almost-5-year-old nestled against my neck. That love. That reminder that I prayed and waited for moments like these. It wasn't another night of bedtime routines. It was a chance to marvel that we had been blessed with this wonderful little girl. Thank you God for the reminder of the joy of raising little ones. That the effort is worth it. That tantrums and sibling bickering is not all of it. That one little girl with her head against my neck is mine.
Wednesday, December 31, 2014
A Plea for Ahondo
Ahondo: Age 5, (Birthday Sept. 15, 2009)
Wednesday, December 24, 2014
It's Christmas Eve
Ah, the quiet of the house before the kids wake up.
Luckily our plans are always low key since we have limited friends.
Bubba has an eye doctor check this morning. Then I think we will brave the stores to buy some food.
Church at 4, which sucks because my kids want to eat at 5, not have me cooking then. Usually service is at 6 or 7, but our new pastor isn't here yet, so this is what it is.
We probably will bake cookies today so Santa has something to snack on.
We are such exciting people.
Merry Christmas everyone!
Saturday, December 20, 2014
Our Family Grows
This week we received our first letter from Malawi. Esther lives with her aunt and uncle. She is in first grade there. She just turned 8 last week and M is getting ready to turn 7. Her aunt wrote a little bit about their farm and Esther's favorite parts of school. They are Christian, so I tell them we are praying for them and wrote back about M's school Christmas play.
Also this week we sponsored Mawupemo in Togo through Compassion. Her birthday is about 2 weeks before Pudge's. Since Compassion doesn't work in Malawi, I searched their girls in Africa that are Pudge's age born in February. There were several, but I was drawn to Mawupemo and her picture reminds me so much of Pudge. Pudge loves wearing dresses and loves shoes. Mawupemo had been waiting 319 days for a sponsor, so it's possible she was enrolled just before her 4th birthday and got a sponsor for Christmas and close to her 5th birthday. It's sad she had to wait so long, but I hope that our frequent letters make up for the wait. Due to the processing time required, we sent out a birthday card to her this week.
We also signed up to correspond with Santosh. He is a young man living in India. For whatever reason, his financial sponsor is unable to write to him, so I will write to him instead. At first I was apprehensive about writing to him since our other kids are so young. But I am sure this will be a wonderful thing for all of us. So now we have friends in Africa and India to pray for and encourage.
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| Mawupemo in Togo |
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| Santosh in India |
Monday, March 17, 2014
Leprechaun Free Zone
Happy St. Patrick's Day (thank you Google for reminding me). Welcome to our circus where simple is how we roll. No, there isn't a leprechaun visiting our house. There's nothing green in the toilet or green milk in the fridge or some letter left behind. We didn't build traps or create a giant rainbow in the living room. If DRL thinks about it, he might dress the younger two in green. Miss M has a uniform and I'm 95% sure she has no idea where her green polo is. But I am pretty sure he will just throw whatever on Bubba and who knows what Pudge will put on. She doesn't have that many green items of clothing so the odds are it will be pink or purple or gray.
Unless the leprechaun is going to do dishes or fix a meal, it's just one more thing I don't have time for. DRL and I turned out just fine without the shenanigans. Keep the leprechaun at school. You already suckered me into doing a penguin (the elf is too creepy), I draw the line at leprechauns.
Tuesday, December 31, 2013
Circus Tidbit
For those of you without kids or your memory is shot from having kids, here is a glimpse into life with little kids.
That creepy moment when an electronic toy starts going off by itself in an empty room.
Saturday, December 21, 2013
Wrapping with Children
I swear, wrapping presents with children around should be an Olympic sport.
First off, no matter where you hide, they will find you. Especially the toddler. It's like you send out some kind of beacon.
Next, try wrapping stuff while someone is climbing you like you are Mt. Everest. And wishing you had about 8 arms because you have to keep the scissors and tape up and out of reach, but not too far because you know, you are actually still using tape and scissors.
Also, once the older kids find out you are wrapping things they will start carting in random crap to wrap for each other. Because there aren't enough things wrapped for them under the tree. Then there will be tears because child 2 can't open child 1's gift. Child 1 will get upset that child 2 saw what they are wrapping. And you start wondering if it's acceptable to drink at 10 am.
So, if it's January before you get gifts, just be glad one of the kids isn't included in the box.
Friday, December 20, 2013
Countdown to Crazy
We are coming into our last few days of quiet before the craziness begins.
Sunday is the "children's program" at church. Most of the kids are 1st grade and below, so we are still at that stage where we can't really do a Christmas program. You know, with memorized lines and kids dressed up as shepherds and angels. So instead the kids sing in both services. With an hour and a half of insanity between the services. It's gonna be fun.
After that, the girls have their holiday party at the dance studio. I would hope DRL would take them, but I think it will be more like passing Bubba off to him while I drag them down there.
Monday is Miss M's 6th birthday. I suppose some type of cake is in order. She has asked for sloppy joes for dinner. She had her birthday party last weekend in hopes that more kids would be able to come. So on Monday she will get to open the rest of the presents we have for her. One good part of her birthday being so close to Christmas is she gets to open her stuff and then hopefully it will keep her and her sister busy for the next day.
Tuesday is Christmas Eve. No big plans here. That evening we will go to church (because the kids are singing again) and then the kids get to open up a present. Which happens to be new pjs. Funny how that works.
Wednesday they get to tear into the mountain of presents under the tree. Actually, probably half the presents for the girls are just old toys that I wrapped up and threw under there. They've probably forgotten all about them anyway. At some point we'll drive over to my mom's house and see them.
Then Thursday is back to work and off to daycare for the kiddos.
Yep, busy busy busy.
Thursday, December 19, 2013
Mathematics and Clothing
Somewhere there is a formula that shows the relationship between the importance of one article of clothing and the likelihood that said article of clothing will be missing when you need it. This formula will also factor in ages and the number of children you have.
It is the day of the Christmas program at Miss M and Pudge's school. The children need to wear a white turtleneck and khaki pants. Each of the girls has only one white turtleneck. Guess what I was hunting for at 8:30 pm yesterday? Actually, Pudge's was where I put it: hung up in her closet. Miss M's was missing. It wasn't in her dresser, in the pile of clean laundry, in the wash, or stashed in her toy box or under the bed. I knew it was somewhere in the house, so I would take the entire house apart to keep from trying to go find a new one at the store. I finally found it crumpled up at the bottom of her bed. She insists it is clean.
Now, what are the odds that today she decides to spill stuff on herself while at school?
Tuesday, December 17, 2013
Dead Week for Parents
You know how in college, the last week before finals was dead week? Well, once you are a parent to school-age children, the week of school before Christmas break is the new dead week.
Before kids: "I need to bring something to the organization pot luck on Monday and something to the building pot luck on Friday. Let me look up some recipes to try."
Now: "Okay, organization pot luck is Monday, what is easy? Pretzels? Awesome! Tuesday night I need to put snacks together for both classes. Oh and must be healthy and nut-free. Well, we have pretzels, so let's add in raisins, marshmallows, chocolate chips, and cheese crackers. I might need to mix it in the tub, but oh well. Also on Tuesday night we need to pick a book to go to school to share and then donate. And select a show-and-tell item. Don't forget we need to make cookies for the cookie exchange on Wednesday. Oh thank goodness, Tuesday is over. Wednesday. Okay, those cookies need to be frosted. And arranged in half dozen sets. Then carted to church for the exchange. After the exchange is dinner, child chaos, and finally church service. Go home and wrap teacher gifts for youngest daughter's teachers. Thursday is Christmas program day. Yay... Leave work early to go get youngest daughter to take her back to school for the 2pm performance. Pick up Bubba from daycare. Throw dinner together and have kids back at the school for the 7pm performance. Wrap gifts for oldest daughter's teachers. Friday. Oh thank God this week is almost over. Make sure gift for the oldest's class gift exchange has made it to school. Send cards and gifts to daycare. Leave work early to pick oldest up because it's early release day. Perhaps drop presents off in the mail because obviously they haven't gone out yet.
And what is the reward for making it through dead week? Children's program at church on Sunday, 6th birthday for Miss M on Monday, Christmas Eve service with kids singing on Tuesday, Christmas Day insanity, and back to work on Thursday. Yay...
I wonder how long that bottle of peppermint schnapps is going to last...











